We hosted 20 girls on the Mardi Himal Base Camp Trek, a five-day, 40-mile journey that included a 10,354-foot elevation gain, with the base camp reaching 14,763 feet.
Each evening, we delved into self-development topics. We began with confidence, emphasizing that while our self-worth is constant, building confidence requires us to gather evidence through actions and keep promises to ourselves. On the second day, we explored relationships, discussing the three attachment styles and how understanding them can improve our interactions with others. We also examined the traits of healthy versus unhealthy relationships, reinforced by the “human knot” activity to practice teamwork.
On the third night, just before summitting, we addressed fear, acknowledging its protective role but stressing the importance of distinguishing between useful and limiting fears. We discussed how courage helps us grow, and a "trust fall" exercise allowed the girls to confront their fears directly. Day four focused on forgiveness. We talked about the importance of forgiving ourselves, others, and our pasts. In a powerful activity, participants wrote down their pains, anger, and regrets, and then symbolically released them by tossing their notes into a fire. Many girls tearfully expressed how freeing it was to let go.
The trek concluded with a reflection session, where the girls shared lessons from the journey, the beauty of the landscapes and villages, funny stories, and moments that inspired them. The experience was transformative and liberating, with many expressing that connecting with nature and overcoming their fears made them feel capable of achieving anything in their lives.